Outside a bonfire lights up the dusk and wood smoke fills the air

My son's been talking to me about enlightenment. im not really sure what he means, so been searching to find something to help me understand.. and found these. Maybe this opens a door a little. Some makes me feel a little uncomfortable but some imagine would make you feel very special

http://www.enlightenedhorsemanship.net/2009/12/50-ways-to-show-you-care-without-spending-a-dime/

http://tinybuddha.com/featured/10-questions-to-ask-yourself-before-giving-up-on-your-dream/